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Published: 2014-02-13 17:42:45 +0000 UTC; Views: 372266; Favourites: 21160; Downloads: 3459
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Description The butterfly flies into thunderstorms just to feel something. The girl cut herself so that she might stop the feelings. A chance meting of two similar souls, both bearing scars.


They survey each other; and realise, they are not alone.


Mm, a very personal drawing for me... I want to give a butterfly. Have you heard of the Butterfly Project? It's an initiative intended to help stop self harm.


Butterfly Project rules:

1. When you feel like you want to cut, take a marker or pen and draw a butterfly wherever the self-harm occurs. 

2. Name the butterfly after a loved one, or someone that really wants you to get better. 
3. NO scrubbing the butterfly off.

4. If you cut before the butterfly is gone, it dies. If you don't cut, it lives.
5. Another person may draw them on you. These butterflies are extra special. Take good care of them.
6. Even if you don’t cut, feel free to draw a butterfly anyway, to show your support. 


I didn't hear about this project till after I was out of my personal crisis, but I really like the idea, supporting yourself or/and friends though tough times. But I don't think its perfect. See number 4? Your butterfly dies if you cut. When I was at my worst point I know I couldn't look after myself let alone a butterfly, real or not. 

So I drew this, to give a butterfly, her name is Hope, she wont die when you cut her, because she's been through it already. She is just there for you, on your skin, a reminder that you are not alone. I wish could draw Hope on every person who needs her; if this is you, please pick up a pen and draw her onto you from me. She is a big raggedy, far from perfect, but beautiful in her uniqueness, and kind in her heart, she doesn't judge you, she is just there with you, to remind you that however bad you feel there are others like you, and people who love you.



To feel so bad that you hurt yourself to feel better. It's terribly twisted logic and a horrible thing to experience... and actually some of the most common form of self harm is actually alcohol and drug abuse.

People do all sorts of things to cope. That's what self harm is, trying to cope. 

I urge anyone going through this to try and find other coping mechanisms, ones that don't cause harm.. Hurting yourself makes you feel better for a moment, but the right help can make the rest of your life feel better. See a doctor, see a councillor, therapist, talk to someone, The Samaritan are always on the end of the phone. There is hope, I know, which is why I give Hope. I wish I could do more, but every person must face their own demons, I'm just letting them know they don't have to do it alone.


What I am doing is donating 10% of the profit of each print of this sold to the Samaritans, a worldwide charity who provide emotional support to people in distress. #


What can you do? Draw Hope. Share your story; and read others stories, and talk. Lets not keep this in the shadows. Please feel free to share this


Peace, love and fading scars,
~Blue x


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Comments: 935

Shikaru101 In reply to ??? [2014-03-02 04:44:48 +0000 UTC]

This is wonderful. It's inspired me to make my own version! ^_^ I'll definitely tag this in mine. <3

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Kaitomo In reply to ??? [2014-03-02 01:00:21 +0000 UTC]

Wow. This is awesome! Great drawing, great message! I hope you soon feel better. 

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Cynnics [2014-02-28 22:27:03 +0000 UTC]

It's hard for me to be instantly connected to a piece of work this much. I've cut before, and still continue to cut now; this just made my day, reading this. And it goes along with such amazing artwork as well <3 


So. . . thank you <3 


I've already drawn a butterfly on my arm after reading the description. I'll definitely remember this.  

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EverStarcatcher [2014-02-28 20:26:52 +0000 UTC]

This piece has such a beautiful feeling behind it. It is so sad yet inspires some hope in people. Wonderful. Simply wonderful.

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flossielouise [2014-02-28 18:21:45 +0000 UTC]

I'm a self harmer since I was nine, and this is the only project that has ever helped me. When I found out a friend of mine was cutting this is the first thing I showed her.

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DevonaStimpson In reply to ??? [2014-02-28 13:40:28 +0000 UTC]

BEautiful!

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Fairys-Fire In reply to ??? [2014-02-28 02:07:25 +0000 UTC]

Even though I don't cut, I love this idea, and am considering adopting the concept for myself. What I mean by that is to draw myself a butterfly somewhere on me whenever I feel painful self-loathing, something I am having a huge problem with lately. It's very bad for me right now and I think that this idea will help it get better, if only a little. And, I hope that the pain and hurting you are experiencing in your own life gets better if it hasn't already. This is a beautiful picture, keep shining!

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jeune-et-jolie In reply to ??? [2014-02-27 23:46:40 +0000 UTC]

Wonderful!! Love the warm colours

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christos216 In reply to ??? [2014-02-26 16:31:07 +0000 UTC]

i love it .  

its very beautiful

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BreeNC In reply to ??? [2014-02-26 07:51:01 +0000 UTC]

This is beautiful. I find all of your work amazing.

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sweetsugariness In reply to ??? [2014-02-25 23:34:07 +0000 UTC]

I love how just lighting and coloring change everything (I faved Damages too)

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ReinaRegina In reply to ??? [2014-02-25 03:01:17 +0000 UTC]

muy conmovedora

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XTheWingedCatX In reply to ??? [2014-02-25 02:58:36 +0000 UTC]

I love your art SO much because of their meaning and depth, but this one is my favourite it's so inspiring and deep, plus how well it's drawn......amazing!

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Pisps In reply to ??? [2014-02-25 02:20:14 +0000 UTC]

a hug for everyone who reads this comment! thank you for such a lovely piece, Destiny :3

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Wuzimaru In reply to ??? [2014-02-25 02:20:04 +0000 UTC]

Wow, this is beautiful!

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Faeyriewings In reply to ??? [2014-02-25 02:17:59 +0000 UTC]

Wow...THis is a brilliant project, I'll be sure to pass it on!

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blueisasome In reply to ??? [2014-02-25 00:15:49 +0000 UTC]

Thank you so much, this is beautiful.

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OokamiSora In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 22:47:11 +0000 UTC]

That is a really wonderful idea. I'm honest, I find it amazing and I admire the project. Thank you for relaying such a beautiful message  

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NighthackStar In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 20:15:40 +0000 UTC]

Love your work. I never cut but would often starch my legs till it bleed

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caatalexis In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 20:05:03 +0000 UTC]

I love this. All of your drawing are so true, and help me through tough times. They remind me that I'm not alone. <3

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GermanDuckies In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 19:34:12 +0000 UTC]

I love that lots of your paintings have a deeper message. You always make me think about the "topic" of the picture. I just love it!

(Sorry, if I made mistakes; my English isn´t the best. )

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ZeldaGirl093 In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 16:26:08 +0000 UTC]

One of my FAVS

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rachelillustrates In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 15:57:25 +0000 UTC]

Amazing, amazing piece. 

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maskweeka In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 12:32:14 +0000 UTC]

<3

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a-h-miller In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 12:31:26 +0000 UTC]

love this pic. thought provoking and emotive. something i cant do too well

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Nari18 In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 07:52:24 +0000 UTC]

your art is so beautiful and inspirational.

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Mortsyn In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 05:51:56 +0000 UTC]

I think I was heading in that direction. Fortunately God pulled me back and gave me the courage to ask for help before I got there.


This drawing is so beautiful.

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NekoNekoGirl04 In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 03:15:11 +0000 UTC]

This is such a beautiful piece of art; I love the symbolism in it. I never did do any self-harm (I came very close, but I didn't), but I support this idea a lot. I love the concept of Hope that you've come up with.

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rumRei In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 01:54:03 +0000 UTC]

your art is always so beautiful and breathtaking. It really speaks to me which is amazing. ^^

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CreativeThinker108 In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 00:52:00 +0000 UTC]

You're someone who I look up to (:

I always try to draw my emotions, it doesn't look as great as your art. I hope one day I can do the same as you.

I've drawn Hope on me, but later on the day, I cut. You said she wouldn't die, but I still felt sad for hurting her.

Your art is the best I have ever seen. You can see the emotion right in there, and it makes you my #1 idol. I reeeally want to be like you someday.

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R-J-S-KING In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 00:45:46 +0000 UTC]

I think I might have heard about that charity


but I didn't know anything about it


it sounds like a great idea


one worth supporting


I don't really want like buying a print thought  


just don't know what I'd do with it


so I when and made a donation directly to them


I think its wonderful what your doing


and I wish you and Samaritans the best of luck  

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Phaedris In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 00:28:47 +0000 UTC]

I don't understand people who don't understand cutting.  It seems so obvious.  Adrenaline, pain and trauma stop the incessant mental dialogue, temporarily pause the depression.  Simple

Beautiful drawing, again, btw


Sending you tons of in hopes that you heal and blossom

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TheLaughingKitten In reply to ??? [2014-02-24 00:13:40 +0000 UTC]

I did this with my friend, but altered. My friend cuts herself and is a little 'off,'(in a good way) and knowing her, she would want the butterfly to die. SO I DREW a picture of her favorite anime character. I'm not sure if it worked

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Erithr In reply to ??? [2014-02-23 22:10:36 +0000 UTC]

I have never heard of this project before, but I'm going to try it. It's fairly easy to harm oneself, but I would never intentionally harm anyone else and the thought of doing so just breaks me apart.
I'm willing to keep my butterflies alive.
I've had the nasty habit of scratching my skin until it starts to bleed since I was seven years old. At first because my skin overreacted to mosquito bites, but during the years it has become a way of intentional self harming and coping up with the difficult long term depression.

Thank you.
I'm fairly sure this will make the hard times easier for many of us.

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fuyu-oleander In reply to ??? [2014-02-23 21:58:45 +0000 UTC]

This is very beautiful. And I love the idea of the Butterfly Project. Wish I'd known about it back when I could've used it.

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TheNinjaEmu In reply to ??? [2014-02-23 21:34:56 +0000 UTC]

Great idea for a drawing I love how you show emotion through your art. It's really good  

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Nestalia In reply to ??? [2014-02-23 20:08:29 +0000 UTC]

It's beautiful in every meaning in the word. I know from experience that self harm is a hard hole to dig out of. I wish the stigma of it would just go away so people wouldn't be afraid to actually talk about it. I even had a therapist look down on me because of it. I could hear it in the tone of his voice. Especially since I bite instead of cut.

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Cappyandme [2014-02-23 20:03:20 +0000 UTC]

This is perfect. Everything about it is perfect. The painting, the project. I think it is a wonderful idea and even though I haven't attempted self harm, Hope is coming with me to help me get through my depression!! Thank you

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DestinyBlue In reply to Cappyandme [2014-02-23 20:10:56 +0000 UTC]

Thank you

Hope is for everyone, for those who cut to cope, or those who cope with the darkness in different ways.

Much love to you

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Shadowpanda29 [2014-02-23 20:00:57 +0000 UTC]

"To feel so bad that you hurt yourself to feel better. It's terribly twisted logic and a horrible thing to experience.." 

" People do all sorts of things to cope. That's what self harm is, trying to cope. "



This speaks so much..

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NecroknightKei In reply to ??? [2014-02-23 19:50:17 +0000 UTC]

This project helped me, alot.

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May-BlueWings [2014-02-23 15:17:53 +0000 UTC]

It's beautiful, both the painting and the message

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BlackEyes17 [2014-02-23 02:57:36 +0000 UTC]

This made me cry...I just got out of the hospital from taking my self-harming too far. This inspired me to stay in power. You're my role model, I hope you know that. You give me strength everyday and your art gives me a feeling nothing else can. You're so amazing, it makes me really sad you used to struggle with demons that made you think otherwise. Never stop spreading your blue fingerprints  

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BlackEyes17 In reply to BlackEyes17 [2014-02-23 02:58:43 +0000 UTC]

PS I have Hope on my arm right now <3

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DestinyBlue In reply to BlackEyes17 [2014-02-23 20:00:00 +0000 UTC]

So glad to hear Hope's there with you, I'd give you a hug if I could

Stay strong, you can stay in power, remember there are better ways to cope than hurting yourself.

I wish you a lot of luck, and send you a lot of love

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BlackEyes17 In reply to DestinyBlue [2014-02-23 20:35:01 +0000 UTC]

Ee! My idol noticed me!   


I sound like such a fangirl.


Anyways


*love recieved*   Thank you so much, you're amazing on so many levels. I have your artwork as my background on all my devices because you inspire me every day to stay strong. Maybe when I scrape together some money, I'll buy big canvases to hang in my room   Keep on making your art, I'm sure I'm not the only soul you've touched. Oh, and PS, your hair is awesome.

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AstraNavis In reply to ??? [2014-02-21 20:27:11 +0000 UTC]

This is so insperational! <3 Really stunning

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Kallori In reply to AstraNavis [2014-02-22 00:35:01 +0000 UTC]

I agree 100%!

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SaraMiaow In reply to ??? [2014-02-21 11:32:02 +0000 UTC]

I really like this project... Can I put your description under a drawing of mine? I hope to spread the message, also if I don't have a lot of watchers >_<

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DrawingDreamLyrics In reply to ??? [2014-02-21 07:20:58 +0000 UTC]

Have so much emotion...they look so sad ,but there's that little butterfly such a warm color almost as if its trying to give her hope

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