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livelikeacartoon In reply to ??? [2010-01-20 03:02:57 +0000 UTC]

I'm incredibly scared so come out to my parents (mostly my dad) He always says shit that pisses me off, and how I'm not manly enough.I want to world to see that its okay, and that all gay people aren't the same.... thanks C:

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elsietabatha In reply to maffy-pop [2010-01-20 03:38:32 +0000 UTC]

Thats awesome.

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maffy-pop In reply to elsietabatha [2010-01-20 03:48:45 +0000 UTC]

it is.. a bit weird for me at first but it's definitely strengthened my beliefs and such.

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Kai-danna In reply to ??? [2010-01-20 02:17:20 +0000 UTC]

Yes it's is, My dad still wouldn't know if he hadn't been snooping around my account....

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engineerJR In reply to Kai-danna [2010-01-20 06:36:05 +0000 UTC]

ooopps

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Kai-danna In reply to engineerJR [2010-01-20 23:08:42 +0000 UTC]

I no!!! ah-welll, at least it didn't turn out horrible!!!

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engineerJR In reply to Kai-danna [2010-01-20 23:28:33 +0000 UTC]

then it's okay or not?

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Kai-danna In reply to engineerJR [2010-01-21 04:05:34 +0000 UTC]

eh, not as bad as it could be, but not as good either. He mostly ingnors it. He's in denial. MY mom Is behind me 100% and thats all that matters to me.

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Joey-of-Suburbia In reply to ??? [2010-01-20 02:09:14 +0000 UTC]

I'm really grateful that my dad was so accepting. <3

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engineerJR In reply to Joey-of-Suburbia [2010-01-20 06:29:06 +0000 UTC]

that's great

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IDotheClickyClick In reply to ??? [2010-01-20 01:50:59 +0000 UTC]

it's never easy. i'm still on the fence about telling the folks i'm on the fence.

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engineerJR In reply to GestaltZe [2010-01-20 06:27:53 +0000 UTC]

give me a link pls
i can't remember of it

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GestaltZe In reply to engineerJR [2010-01-20 06:39:27 +0000 UTC]

Can't remember Lite Brites?
I'm teasing. Here's Hasbro's website for the things: [link]
Basically, they were black boards that you put translucent pegs in to make a picture. Then, when you turned it on, light would glow through your picture.
How awesome were the nineties? xD

But the style you did this in really did remind me of the Lite Brites.

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engineerJR In reply to GestaltZe [2010-01-20 06:41:57 +0000 UTC]

I've never seen :-/

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GestaltZe In reply to engineerJR [2010-01-20 06:43:54 +0000 UTC]

You were a deprived child...
I'm sorry.

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engineerJR In reply to GestaltZe [2010-01-20 15:40:46 +0000 UTC]

never mind..

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GestaltZe In reply to engineerJR [2010-01-20 23:21:15 +0000 UTC]

Er, sorry... It was just a joke.

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Zack-The-Dragon In reply to ??? [2010-01-20 01:31:09 +0000 UTC]

There's no need that it should be hard to say, let alone the need to confess it. Although, in this modern period of time; sexuality is (sadly) a very big deal.

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NekoTaka In reply to ??? [2010-01-20 01:27:25 +0000 UTC]

I don't remember ever saying it, but my BIOLOGICAL parents knew. And they beat me. They mentally and physically abused me. At 14 I was adopted by my best friends family, and I am now stronger than ever. TAKE THAT YOU HOMOPHOBIC BASTARDS! YOU COULDN'T BREAK ME! *huff huff* Okay, I'm good.

Beautiful! Love it!

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engineerJR In reply to NekoTaka [2010-01-20 06:25:10 +0000 UTC]

wow
your story is very emotional
i hope you will have a perfect future

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NekoTaka In reply to engineerJR [2010-01-20 18:13:28 +0000 UTC]

I already do ^_^ Wonderful husband, great adoptive family, and we've adopted four beautiful sons. Life is good ^_^

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engineerJR In reply to NekoTaka [2010-01-20 18:22:14 +0000 UTC]

that's great ^_^

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elsietabatha In reply to NekoTaka [2010-01-20 03:41:51 +0000 UTC]

Wow, that's horrible. Yay for you that you got away!

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NekoTaka In reply to elsietabatha [2010-01-20 04:02:54 +0000 UTC]

*strikes a pose* I'm bigger, stronger, and more gay than ever! BWAHAHAHAHA!

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gothgirl-lyoko In reply to ??? [2010-01-20 01:15:55 +0000 UTC]

Ohhh I feel it... It's supper mega hard. I havn't done it yet, I can't bring up the guts. D: It's so hard to hide the fact I have a girlfriend too

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engineerJR In reply to gothgirl-lyoko [2010-01-20 06:26:29 +0000 UTC]

the right moment to tell will come
don't make a rush reaction pls

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dolphin64575 In reply to ??? [2010-01-20 00:55:58 +0000 UTC]

I haven't told my dad yet. this is v creative, though

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Skyflys In reply to ??? [2010-01-20 00:51:06 +0000 UTC]

i came out about 2 months ago it was the hardest thing i have ever done

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engineerJR In reply to Skyflys [2010-01-20 06:19:47 +0000 UTC]

i can imagine

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ZenLay1968 In reply to ??? [2010-01-20 00:17:19 +0000 UTC]

I guess writing in "LightBrite" makes it easier LOL But seriously not it isn't easy, I have yet to cross that bridge to my folks yet. Nice work though.

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Senseless-pain In reply to ??? [2010-01-20 00:11:51 +0000 UTC]

I can understand the sentiment, telling any parental figure is hard.

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JiraiyasStudent In reply to ??? [2010-01-20 00:00:25 +0000 UTC]

I agree. This is one of the hardest things to say. I have yet to come out to my mother about being bi.

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hernanches In reply to JiraiyasStudent [2010-01-21 20:45:54 +0000 UTC]

well, i havent come out to any of my relatives, hehe!
but it's something i wanna do. i mean, i don't wanna die with this part of me hidden...
but yeah, its kinda hard... so damn hard!

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JiraiyasStudent In reply to hernanches [2010-01-21 20:52:35 +0000 UTC]

I came out to my cousin, but that's it. I want to tell my mom eventually. Yes, it is very hard to tell family. I wish you all the best when you do decide to tell them.

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hernanches In reply to JiraiyasStudent [2010-01-25 20:20:34 +0000 UTC]

thank you. i've told some friends, but it's not the same with relatives, i just dunno why... i've been even wonderin if they're worth telling... like: "is it really necessary?". but i feel like i really should, so that i could feel freer, know what i mean? gosh!

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JiraiyasStudent In reply to hernanches [2010-01-26 18:39:17 +0000 UTC]

You're welcome. I know what you mean, I feel the same way at times. I know if I tell my mom...there's a strong possiblity that everyone else in my family will find out...and it won't be good. I really only want my mom to find out and not everyone else. But I have a feeling that won't happen....

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hernanches In reply to JiraiyasStudent [2010-01-29 20:27:36 +0000 UTC]

why the hell straight people dont' have to go through this?

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JiraiyasStudent In reply to hernanches [2010-02-02 23:09:55 +0000 UTC]

It would be nice if we didn't have to go through this....either that or straight people would have to go through what we go through. *sighs*

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hernanches In reply to JiraiyasStudent [2010-02-03 00:48:48 +0000 UTC]

yes, it's so true

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JiraiyasStudent In reply to hernanches [2010-02-03 00:56:49 +0000 UTC]

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hernanches In reply to JiraiyasStudent [2010-02-03 18:25:33 +0000 UTC]

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r3v3r53d In reply to JiraiyasStudent [2010-01-20 05:21:11 +0000 UTC]

Same *sigh*, heh I think I'm just saving it for sometime appropriate. My dad would be worse though.

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JiraiyasStudent In reply to r3v3r53d [2010-01-20 05:26:24 +0000 UTC]

My mom will be easier to tell my mom then it will be my dad. My mom won't be happy and will probably be disappointed, but my dad will probably disown me. *sigh*

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r3v3r53d In reply to JiraiyasStudent [2010-01-21 02:31:37 +0000 UTC]

*hug*

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JiraiyasStudent In reply to r3v3r53d [2010-01-21 02:48:06 +0000 UTC]

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engineerJR In reply to JiraiyasStudent [2010-01-20 00:12:36 +0000 UTC]

i wish you all the best

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JiraiyasStudent In reply to engineerJR [2010-01-20 00:22:54 +0000 UTC]

Thank you.

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engineerJR In reply to JiraiyasStudent [2010-01-20 00:27:52 +0000 UTC]

if you need some help.. i'm there!

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