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agreed.
my mom made me swear i wouldnt be a lesbian
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keeping one's sexuality a secret from one's own parents is...frustrating x3x
i love this, btw ^^
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It is one of the hardest things to say .-.
I thought my mom had realized it once and thought she would eventually accept me, but she went right back into hating it and denying it up until she died. Silly southern cities being so close minded.
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Just gotta live with it and try your best, hm~?
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I'm out.. and it feels great. .that's the only thing I could say
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I'm out everywhere except at home. I tried coming out to my mom and she completely denied it and now my whole family insists on telling me constantly it's so wrong. So I guess I'm kind of out at home? But not really.
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Sigh, just gotta deal with it, hm ^^?
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i couldn't give you an advice.. i'm not a professional consultant
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I can tel my mum, but my dad.... damn I'm scared of what would happen if I told him
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i know that this is a hard thing.. i was waiting almost 5 years before i told them
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yeah I've told my mum and some friends but my dad....
good god hes rasist and probably homophobic, among other things >.>
He'll probably find out when I actually find someone ^^
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yea maybe.. only you're able to know when the right is there..
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Es sollte nicht so schwer sein. Es ist schwer wegen der Angst, der verdammten Angst. Es ist schwer weil viele es immer noch nicht als normal ansehen, aber so sollte es nicht sein.
Wenn die Leute tolleranter wΓ€ren, dann wΓ€re es auch einfacher.
Ich bin bi und ich will mich nicht outen, weil viele die ich kenne und eig mag leider so intollerant sind. Ich hab solche Angst meine Freunde zu verlieren...
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Ich sag es mal so: wie wertvoll kΓΆnnen Freunde sein, wenn sie nicht zu dir stehen??
Mir wΓ€ren ECHTE Freunde, die damit kein Problem haben wesentlich lieber..
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i'm bi-curious... and I haven't told anybody (except online) it's soooo hard to say 
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i wish u the best!
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for me it was hard too because the whole time until my coming-out i had bad feelings.
i was affraid that i was lying to my parents. and when it cames out my mother and i have cried a lot.
but today every thing is okay. and even my granny knows it. and she said that if i will get lucky with loving a man it will be the best thing
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but yu've found the right way?
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what do you mean? the right way to tell them?
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the right way to handle the whole thing..
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oh. I'm not sure, because I don't know for sure... but it's hard, and talking with people does help a lot
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yea that's true..
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.... yeah....
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i know that.. but i'm over it.. thanks for your support
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I'm not gay, but even if I was I'm a girl so you'd call me a lesbian,
but then again, I may be bi curious and pretty proud =] ~
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you're confusing me^^
me answer was that MY dad knows it
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I confuse everyone
Owww, how does he feel about it?
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we don't talk about it..
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I see ~
I don't talk about my love life with my family really either...
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for me it's too difficult, because they have no knowledge about relationships of same-sex people
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My parent's don't either but my dad says he can help me out with me if I go out with a girl...but secretly I think he's trying to make me feel better
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but they both accept you?
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ok..that would be nice
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Yes but then again they would be careful around you and talking to their friends because no instead of bringing a boy home our daughter would be bringing a girl home... but yeah, it's hard been gay/lesbian... it's not a extremely bad thing though, ~
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