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GuyWithPaintBrushLetting Go

Published: 2011-10-07 18:48:11 +0000 UTC; Views: 17039; Favourites: 1633; Downloads: 189
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Description Oil on Canvas

Letting go of the fist

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Just logged on to find a recieved a DD?! So excited. Thank you for all the comments and attention.
I noticed a few comments asking 'what its about'...I may have missed my window of attention, but I'm going to add this anyway.

This painting is about holding on when the love in your life has stopped. It's about that moment, when you realize, you are being left to dangle alone, grasping onto someone who isn't grasping back. The other person, is in fact, resisting your attempts to hold on...and you know you have to let go, but when you do, you know there is something dark and dreadful waiting below. You will probably survive the fall, but you will be changed forever by the impact. It is so. hard. to. let. go.
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Comments: 146

scapegoatie In reply to ??? [2012-04-15 22:03:49 +0000 UTC]

The fist would mean the other person isn't willing to hold on to her, right?

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GuyWithPaintBrush In reply to scapegoatie [2012-05-11 18:50:51 +0000 UTC]

The fist is not helping her. She can dangle alone, without help, or she can let go and fall into whatever the dark holds below.

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themysticalmediator In reply to scapegoatie [2012-04-16 19:26:28 +0000 UTC]

I didn't see the arm at first, at first glance I thought it was a pole. Perhaps it must be destiny for her to let go.....

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kayleero [2012-04-15 21:37:47 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful, congrats on the DD!

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Sxarlet [2012-04-15 21:15:18 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful.

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chainbreaks [2012-04-15 21:10:21 +0000 UTC]

amazing coloring love it!

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BojanPapic [2012-04-15 20:35:09 +0000 UTC]

Please accept submission of this piece to
It will make a great addition to our group gallery.
Make sure You visit us, best regards and congratulations on your DD!

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De5sertRo5e [2012-04-15 20:08:58 +0000 UTC]

Stunningly realistic!!

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axellover123spyro [2012-04-15 19:57:15 +0000 UTC]

it reminds me of the bring me to life music video when amy lee had to hang for her life and paul mccoy was trying to save her

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GuyWithPaintBrush In reply to axellover123spyro [2012-05-11 18:52:29 +0000 UTC]

except here, no one is trying to save her.

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axellover123spyro In reply to GuyWithPaintBrush [2012-05-11 22:51:17 +0000 UTC]

ik and someone needs to

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GuyWithPaintBrush In reply to axellover123spyro [2012-05-12 01:23:14 +0000 UTC]

agreed

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axellover123spyro In reply to GuyWithPaintBrush [2012-05-12 15:37:46 +0000 UTC]

ikr

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BadRobots In reply to ??? [2012-04-15 19:39:05 +0000 UTC]

Great piece

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Sagittarianism [2012-04-15 18:18:12 +0000 UTC]

She kind of looks like Carrie Fisher.
Great work; I feel the adrenalin.

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Dunkelkatze [2012-04-15 18:16:17 +0000 UTC]

Should this symbolize a wife/girlfriend who's not able to get away from her violent man? Because the hand seems to belong to a man and isn't holding her but clenched to a fist. And she wouldn't let go until she falls and destroyes herself because she stayed with him.
Or am I interpreting to much?

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GuyWithPaintBrush In reply to Dunkelkatze [2012-05-11 19:03:01 +0000 UTC]

I truly enjoy hearing what people see when they look at my (or any) paintings. Often tells me something about what they have gone through in their own lives.
That said, if there was a third sex, neither man or woman, I'd paint that 'person' as the subject of all my paintings. This painting is about anyone, man or woman, who is holding on when their partner has stopped. It's about that moment, when you realize, you are being left to dangle alone, grasping onto someone who isn't grasping back. The other person, is in fact, resisting your attempts to hold on...and you know you have to let go, but when you do, you know there is something dark and dreadful waiting below. You will probably survive the fall, but you will be changed forever by the impact. It is so. hard. to. let. go.
It isn't so much about physical violence as it is about emotional violence.
Thank you very much for taking the time to comment. Still can't believe all the attention this got.

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Dunkelkatze In reply to GuyWithPaintBrush [2012-05-16 17:13:02 +0000 UTC]

Thanks for your detailed answer (:
Fortunately I haven't gone through something like that myself. But I know enough people who did to understand the feelings of one person in such a situation.

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VedaDataram In reply to Dunkelkatze [2012-04-15 18:32:15 +0000 UTC]

Haha, I thought something like that as well. XD

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Dunkelkatze In reply to VedaDataram [2012-04-15 18:46:07 +0000 UTC]

Let's wait for the artist's answer ;D

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VedaDataram In reply to Dunkelkatze [2012-04-15 21:10:15 +0000 UTC]

Lol mmhm.

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TheDeathDayz In reply to VedaDataram [2012-04-16 00:24:26 +0000 UTC]

I thought that was a cloth or something. XDD

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Smokey-Doodle In reply to ??? [2012-04-15 18:06:27 +0000 UTC]

Whoa!
Amazing perspective and just wow!

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nataroque [2012-04-15 17:48:50 +0000 UTC]

wonderful, I love how the fist she is hanging on to looks raw, like it is in pain almost..

great colors, Instant love

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m0llym0nster In reply to ??? [2012-04-15 17:29:44 +0000 UTC]

Absolutely amazing. Beautiful.

--- Great work!

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jadialuvsnaruhina [2012-04-15 17:28:09 +0000 UTC]

this is really beautiful but what really is the story about?

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GuyWithPaintBrush In reply to jadialuvsnaruhina [2012-05-11 19:13:41 +0000 UTC]

I updated the comment under the painting, hopefully it tells the story a little better. Thanks for the comment!

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jadialuvsnaruhina In reply to GuyWithPaintBrush [2012-05-13 17:14:20 +0000 UTC]

ohhhhh i saw ! beautiful! <3

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oscar-ojisan [2012-04-15 17:25:27 +0000 UTC]

amazing ^__^

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HarumiLove4 [2012-04-15 17:20:06 +0000 UTC]

This Is Terrific!

Love,
Harumi <3

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DreamingOrAwake [2012-04-15 17:12:50 +0000 UTC]

Excellent job! I love the emotion on her face

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Birdy-7 In reply to ??? [2012-04-15 16:52:09 +0000 UTC]

brilliant!

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CrowsReign [2012-04-15 16:34:15 +0000 UTC]

masterpiece!!!!!!!!!!!

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steinhakasei In reply to ??? [2012-04-15 16:21:53 +0000 UTC]

Nice job.

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SuchFunnyWayToFall [2012-04-15 16:03:46 +0000 UTC]

Love the way u have done her eyes, really expressive)

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Paranoiacomplex [2012-04-15 16:02:30 +0000 UTC]

beautiful piece of work! Very emotional and captivating.

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pedobear5 In reply to ??? [2012-04-15 15:51:44 +0000 UTC]

wow.

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T-Thomas [2012-04-15 15:37:26 +0000 UTC]

wonderful. I adore the perspective, very well executed piece

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DenzelAJackson [2012-04-15 14:53:43 +0000 UTC]

this looks amazing! her face is intense and pretty at the same time, excellent work

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cherriylove [2012-04-15 13:58:29 +0000 UTC]

Amazing. Simply and utterly AMAZING! Goes for all your artwork :3

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a-schlag In reply to ??? [2012-04-15 13:58:19 +0000 UTC]

nice prospective

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Jahisun In reply to ??? [2012-04-15 13:22:32 +0000 UTC]

that's really good!

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iGoForIt [2012-04-15 12:19:21 +0000 UTC]

This is beautiful! I love the expression on her face!

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EmceeYahya In reply to ??? [2012-04-15 12:00:06 +0000 UTC]

Her expressions are so good.
Good Job!

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blue1789 In reply to ??? [2012-04-15 11:44:28 +0000 UTC]

wowwowwow

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Berzurca [2012-04-15 11:02:51 +0000 UTC]

wow... looks kinda like Amy lee xD

It's prety amazing though

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GuyWithPaintBrush In reply to Berzurca [2012-05-12 05:12:42 +0000 UTC]

Who's Amy lee?

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Berzurca In reply to GuyWithPaintBrush [2012-05-12 07:18:39 +0000 UTC]

A singer

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AvaKitsch [2012-04-15 10:22:49 +0000 UTC]

Really love the expression on her face

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SylSawyer666 [2012-04-15 10:19:52 +0000 UTC]

I thought yhat was a photo! is awesome!

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