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Description
For Context:
Ben and Todd have been together for 18 years, including 14 years of marriage. They've had MANY years to cultivate such a loving, healthy relationship.

HEIGHT
Ben may be shorter, but he is the more physically stronger of the two. Ben is more on the stocky side, compared to his string-bean, Todd.

SPOONS
Ben and Todd are more or less versatile with their cuddle dynamics. Though Ben tends to be the big spoon about 60% of the time. Todd is pure verse with his cuddles. Any snuggle time they can get with one another is 10/10.

BORROWING CLOTHES
They don't borrow each others' clothes very often; they have different taste in outfits. Sometimes they share jackets and hoodies if one of them is cold. If anything, they share each others's socks; one size fit all, amirite?

PET NAMES
Todd likes to call Ben "Kitten" or "Coffee Bean". Ben sometimes calls Todd his "Butterscotch Blond" or simply "Butterscotch". They both use "hun" and "babe" and Todd sometimes says "dear".
Ben was more opposed to pet names when he was younger, especially "Kitten" but it's grown on him.

INTROVERT/EXTROVERT
Ben is a full-on extrovert. He's out-going and likes to be around people. Ben is the guy that's on-board for going places and starting up conversation.
while Todd is an ambivert leaning more towards extrovert. He enjoys the emotional connections he makes with others and spending time with people he cares about. He's selectively social, compared to his husband. Unlike an introvert, Todd doesn't experience that social exhaustion nor the need to recharge. Todd, being a therapist, is a good listener.

Back in college, Todd wasn't one for going to random frat parties; he wanted to have someone familiar to be with. Todd was actually more of a workaholic in college, but Ben was able to crack that shell and get him out more, slowly but surly. On the other side of things, college-era Ben was the type of dude to go overboard at college parties; lots of drinking, weed, and partying. And Todd in turn helps him with moderation and gets him to cut back on the wild vices.

AFFECTION WORDS VS ACTION
Todd has a good balance of verbal affection and physical affection. He loves his snuggle time and kisses, and other intimate moments, but also the emotional support guy with kind, loving words to give. Ben is more on the touchy-feely side of being affectionate. Y'know, the kind of guy that will casually put his arm around you when you sit on the couch together. Ben's often the one initiating snuggle time.

CONFESSION
Ben was the first to confess his feelings, and also the one who proposed years later. With other relationships, it really depends for both of them. With Todd, he could go either way. It was easier for him to confess his feelings to girl crushes than guy ones. Both their past romances are a work in progress.

BUGS
Todd is the type that, depending on the bug, that will capture it in a glass and set it free. Ben's the type to go straight to the swatter; hates flies especially. And no, anthro bugs do not exist in my furry-verse.

DRIVING
They both drive. Ben has a rule for his car: driver picks the music.

COOKING
Both men are good at it in their own way. Ben is a total master of the grill, and Todd can make a delicious eggplant Parmesan. They take turns cooking, setting up weekly meal plans. They get inspiration from cooking shows and then some.

PDA
Both men are at a point where they're comfortable enough with their respective sexualities that they'll hold hands and kiss in public. They're not obnoxious enough to make out in public or do anything indecent, nor are they glued to the hip 24/7.

PROTECTIVENESS
Ben tends to be more protective, but neither side gets raging jealous. Ben would go into rage mode if anyone tries to grope him or his hubby; y'know, sexual-harassment type stuff. Ben is definitely the type to fight back if attacked; make a homophobic cuck catch these hands!!!

RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCE
While both men have had their fair share of past romances, Todd has had a bit more experience in the dating field than Ben has. Todd previously having 4 serious relationships, and Ben having 2.
Prior to Ben, Todd had dated more women and found it a little easier to date them. Todd's the kind of guy that prefers to take it slow and not rush into things. His first serious male relationship (prior to Ben) escalated too quickly for his liking. Similar things would happen trying to hook up with other dudes. ._. He had gotten flack for being bi from both sides of the dating game. (One of his ex-girlfriends was bi, and the only one that truly accepted Todd's sexuality prior to his hubby).
Ben's the type that if he has the opportunity to be with someone, he'll take what he can get, quick or slow. No steady relationships with women.
Ben and Todd took their relationship slow during its early stages.

HORNINESS
That stays strictly between them. I'm sex-repulsed, so I don't really look into that thing with the majority of my couples. That and I really, really don't want the wrong kind of attention from thirsty furries. Let's just say that for them, love making is truly an act of two becoming one and they manage to keep things fun after all these years.

AWKWARDNESS
They're not particularly awkward dudes and they're well past that stage in their relationship.

JEALOUSY
Both men are at a point in their marriage where they can completely trust each other not to cheat. They have a very healthy and monogamous relationship, and neither one wants to lose that special bond. If a rando tries to flirt with one of them, the other will just roll his eyes, knowing no one can woo his hub like each other.

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Description
For Context:
Ben and Todd have been together for 18 years, including 14 years of marriage. They've had MANY years to cultivate such a loving, healthy relationship.

HEIGHT
Ben may be shorter, but he is the more physically stronger of the two. Ben is more on the stocky side, compared to his string-bean, Todd.

SPOONS
Ben and Todd are more or less versatile with their cuddle dynamics. Though Ben tends to be the big spoon about 60% of the time. Todd is pure verse with his cuddles. Any snuggle time they can get with one another is 10/10.

BORROWING CLOTHES
They don't borrow each others' clothes very often; they have different taste in outfits. Sometimes they share jackets and hoodies if one of them is cold. If anything, they share each others's socks; one size fit all, amirite?

PET NAMES
Todd likes to call Ben "Kitten" or "Coffee Bean". Ben sometimes calls Todd his "Butterscotch Blond" or simply "Butterscotch". They both use "hun" and "babe" and Todd sometimes says "dear".
Ben was more opposed to pet names when he was younger, especially "Kitten" but it's grown on him.

INTROVERT/EXTROVERT
Ben is a full-on extrovert. He's out-going and likes to be around people. Ben is the guy that's on-board for going places and starting up conversation.
while Todd is an ambivert leaning more towards extrovert. He enjoys the emotional connections he makes with others and spending time with people he cares about. He's selectively social, compared to his husband. Unlike an introvert, Todd doesn't experience that social exhaustion nor the need to recharge. Todd, being a therapist, is a good listener.

Back in college, Todd wasn't one for going to random frat parties; he wanted to have someone familiar to be with. Todd was actually more of a workaholic in college, but Ben was able to crack that shell and get him out more, slowly but surly. On the other side of things, college-era Ben was the type of dude to go overboard at college parties; lots of drinking, weed, and partying. And Todd in turn helps him with moderation and gets him to cut back on the wild vices.

AFFECTION WORDS VS ACTION
Todd has a good balance of verbal affection and physical affection. He loves his snuggle time and kisses, and other intimate moments, but also the emotional support guy with kind, loving words to give. Ben is more on the touchy-feely side of being affectionate. Y'know, the kind of guy that will casually put his arm around you when you sit on the couch together. Ben's often the one initiating snuggle time.

CONFESSION
Ben was the first to confess his feelings, and also the one who proposed years later. With other relationships, it really depends for both of them. With Todd, he could go either way. It was easier for him to confess his feelings to girl crushes than guy ones. Both their past romances are a work in progress.

BUGS
Todd is the type that, depending on the bug, that will capture it in a glass and set it free. Ben's the type to go straight to the swatter; hates flies especially. And no, anthro bugs do not exist in my furry-verse.

DRIVING
They both drive. Ben has a rule for his car: driver picks the music.

COOKING
Both men are good at it in their own way. Ben is a total master of the grill, and Todd can make a delicious eggplant Parmesan. They take turns cooking, setting up weekly meal plans. They get inspiration from cooking shows and then some.

PDA
Both men are at a point where they're comfortable enough with their respective sexualities that they'll hold hands and kiss in public. They're not obnoxious enough to make out in public or do anything indecent, nor are they glued to the hip 24/7.

PROTECTIVENESS
Ben tends to be more protective, but neither side gets raging jealous. Ben would go into rage mode if anyone tries to grope him or his hubby; y'know, sexual-harassment type stuff. Ben is definitely the type to fight back if attacked; make a homophobic cuck catch these hands!!!

RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCE
While both men have had their fair share of past romances, Todd has had a bit more experience in the dating field than Ben has. Todd previously having 4 serious relationships, and Ben having 2.
Prior to Ben, Todd had dated more women and found it a little easier to date them. Todd's the kind of guy that prefers to take it slow and not rush into things. His first serious male relationship (prior to Ben) escalated too quickly for his liking. Similar things would happen trying to hook up with other dudes. ._. He had gotten flack for being bi from both sides of the dating game. (One of his ex-girlfriends was bi, and the only one that truly accepted Todd's sexuality prior to his hubby).
Ben's the type that if he has the opportunity to be with someone, he'll take what he can get, quick or slow. No steady relationships with women.
Ben and Todd took their relationship slow during its early stages.

HORNINESS
That stays strictly between them. I'm sex-repulsed, so I don't really look into that thing with the majority of my couples. That and I really, really don't want the wrong kind of attention from thirsty furries. Let's just say that for them, love making is truly an act of two becoming one and they manage to keep things fun after all these years.

AWKWARDNESS
They're not particularly awkward dudes and they're well past that stage in their relationship.

JEALOUSY
Both men are at a point in their marriage where they can completely trust each other not to cheat. They have a very healthy and monogamous relationship, and neither one wants to lose that special bond. If a rando tries to flirt with one of them, the other will just roll his eyes, knowing no one can woo his hub like each other.

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