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Description It really do.. I know it does..

Even after several years after the bullying "period" have taken place. The damage is done.. You stop trusting people, you're more comfortable alone, even depression and other physiological problems may occurre.. Bullying do DESTROY Lives..

Bullying Defined:

Bullying is characterised by repeated, unprovoked harassment of another individual in which that individual has difficulty defending him/herself.


Examples of Bullying include:

Punching, shoving and other acts that cause physical harm
Spreading rumours (including cyber-bullying)
Excluding people from a "group"
Teasing in a mean way
Getting certain people to "gang up" on others

As a result, those involved in bullying may experience:

Poor academic performance and school failure
Poor mental and psychological health (e.g. depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, & behavioural problems)
Delinquency
Poor peer relationships

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It is estimated that 160,000 children miss school every day due to fear of attack or intimidation by other students. Source: National Education Association.
A survey conducted by the American Association of University Women reported that 85% of girls and 76% of boys have been sexually harassed in some form and only 18% of those incidents were perpetrated by an adults.
Young bullies carry a one-in-four chance of having a criminal record by age 30. Study by Leonard Eron and Rowell Huesman.
American schools harbor approximately 2.1 million bullies and 2.7 million of their victims. Dan Olweus, National School Safety Center.
One in seven students is either a bully or victim.
56% of students have personally witnessed some type of bullying at school.
15% of all school absenteeism is directly related to fears of being bullied at school.
71% of students report incidents of bullying as a problem at their school.
One out of 20 students has seen a student with a gun at school.
Mean behavior among kids is a universal problem. In a poll of 232 kids in kindergarten through 8th grade at a Connecticut elementary school, every child claimed to have been the victim of at least one schoolmate’s or sibling’s meanness in the previous month.


Facts :
www.parentingbookmark.com/page…
www.targetbully.com/wst_page6.…

Picture is one of my own

A picture based on bullying and psychological abuse seen from my side, and portrayed with my emotions

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Heretic1379 [2021-02-20 00:44:14 +0000 UTC]

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Ofquillandcolor4488 [2020-12-28 10:43:14 +0000 UTC]

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Heretic1379 In reply to Ofquillandcolor4488 [2021-02-20 01:02:05 +0000 UTC]

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Ofquillandcolor4488 In reply to Heretic1379 [2021-02-21 08:13:43 +0000 UTC]

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Heretic1379 In reply to Ofquillandcolor4488 [2021-02-21 08:20:41 +0000 UTC]

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Ofquillandcolor4488 In reply to Heretic1379 [2021-02-21 08:27:23 +0000 UTC]

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Heretic1379 In reply to Ofquillandcolor4488 [2021-02-21 08:39:49 +0000 UTC]

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DanalClubSikes [2020-11-22 15:12:49 +0000 UTC]

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CYSYS8993 [2019-11-27 08:30:49 +0000 UTC]

Victim: I'm being bullied
Bystanders: Nah, they're just playing around. You really need to man up and stop playing victim. The world isn't out to get you.

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Heretic1379 In reply to CYSYS8993 [2021-02-20 01:15:12 +0000 UTC]

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Disneycow82 [2019-07-23 00:48:53 +0000 UTC]

The worst bullies in the world are the ones who deny that they are bullies, acting like they did nothing wrong at all. 

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Heretic1379 In reply to Disneycow82 [2021-02-20 00:52:33 +0000 UTC]

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colorspaintrainbow [2019-04-14 23:48:16 +0000 UTC]

using

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one-squishy-fish [2018-05-14 13:52:43 +0000 UTC]

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SuperToni14 In reply to one-squishy-fish [2018-09-16 17:03:57 +0000 UTC]

He/She did?! Did you tell your teacher about how you were bullied?

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one-squishy-fish In reply to SuperToni14 [2018-09-16 20:21:37 +0000 UTC]

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SuperToni14 In reply to one-squishy-fish [2018-09-16 20:36:25 +0000 UTC]

Wow, that sucks.

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JustSomeStranger [2017-07-31 00:32:50 +0000 UTC]

Really bullying needs to be considered a form of abuse. In many ways, it's not unlike domestic abuse.

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AngieFuzzball [2016-12-08 17:17:35 +0000 UTC]

My school takes bullying REALLY seriously, But it still continues. Bullying almost destroyed my life. But now I am ok. Thankfully 

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Heretic1379 In reply to AngieFuzzball [2021-02-20 00:56:01 +0000 UTC]

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Polarized-Wolf [2016-12-07 23:13:30 +0000 UTC]

I get harassed and bullied almost every day at school.. I'm even used to it in a way..
It's why I don't like going to school that much at all..

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BugIsANerd17 [2016-11-05 01:54:10 +0000 UTC]

I'm bullied on a daily basis and it's killed my self-esteem MAJOR!

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Death-Dealer123 [2016-05-09 06:24:27 +0000 UTC]

Mind if I add this to two groups i run?

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VampireCherry In reply to Death-Dealer123 [2016-05-10 01:39:22 +0000 UTC]

Of course not. Knock yourself out. Just give me the credits

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Death-Dealer123 In reply to VampireCherry [2016-05-10 02:54:48 +0000 UTC]

Sure thing. I run and another group that deals with bullying within the world of cosplay

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Heretic1379 In reply to Death-Dealer123 [2021-02-20 01:22:40 +0000 UTC]

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TopThePurpleGirl [2016-04-23 12:53:35 +0000 UTC]

i see bullys as a creature and not human.

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SparklyBlueRoses84 [2016-03-25 17:54:42 +0000 UTC]

Bullying is not good at all.

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Heretic1379 In reply to SparklyBlueRoses84 [2021-02-20 02:21:55 +0000 UTC]

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SeamairWolf [2016-03-24 04:10:44 +0000 UTC]

so true 
I will be using this

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PervertBunnies [2015-09-17 20:14:43 +0000 UTC]

Bullies made me change my surname when I've got 14 or I almost commited suicide over this and that, and bullying (on the internet, too) over something soo fucking irrelevant like my last name triggered me so bad 
So I am not laughing at anybody but my bullies/enemies

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Belarus-natasha [2015-08-10 10:22:43 +0000 UTC]

Wow. 

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PattitonLourkaiSage [2015-05-09 23:15:53 +0000 UTC]

What sucks more is the emotional scars that'll never heal like mine

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sonicthehedgehogFG [2015-04-20 09:03:47 +0000 UTC]

THAT'S SO TRUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

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frontierNexus [2015-03-06 03:08:50 +0000 UTC]

"Excluding people from a group"
If anyone could join any group at any time, groups would be devoid of meaning.

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VampireCherry In reply to frontierNexus [2015-03-06 12:38:45 +0000 UTC]

The meaning behind it is that you are shut out of places like gymnastics groups (no one wants you in) school projects/ work projects, birthday parties/company events, people leaving you in a corner, badmouthing you behind your back etc etc. It's not about exclusive groups, just normal social situations. 

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HitlerKiller66 [2015-03-05 16:12:16 +0000 UTC]

I've been easily bullied in every grade mostly by senior pupils because of my surname. Mane other people get hardly bullying, and maybe you would think "you can avoid this, it's not that hard", but I am very sensitive about this since I was born. I've got bullied since I went to kindergarden. Other kids stoling my toys sometimes. Once, I've been almost strangled by some boy that bullied me at kindergarden most. Several times at school I've got called a "maniac", "demon", "junkie" because I was wearing something different and I have the dark circles under my eyes. Not my classmates though, only few of them bullying me (and other classmates. some of them got bullied (at this time too) more, much more than me). Once I haven't got a choice, and I sit with my bully. Teacher said that "she's sitting with him but not with her (don't wanna call their names), that means that she have feelings for him", mostly everyone just looked at me and smile unfriendly... 
Once I sat with my second bully (now he isn't bullying me much, but those days.. hell), he just harassed me and bullied me, almost every math lesson we got. 
Since now, sometimes when kids not from my class, when first heared my surname, just giggling, and god this is so annoying, it is just... lowers my mood.
Here's what I got from bullying:

  • Low self-esteem
  • Difficulty in trusting others
  • Lack of assertiveness
  • Aggression
  • Difficulty controlling anger
  • Isolation
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    DudelSaur [2014-12-05 03:38:47 +0000 UTC]

    I was harassed in elementary and middle school, but what I've heard people say and do online is just... pure, raw evil, I feel that kids have it worse today . That's the best way I can describe it, as pure heartlessness, ignorance and malice... My prayers for all that are struggling with being bullied, and for those who ARE the bullies to see the wrong that they're doing.

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    Heretic1379 In reply to DudelSaur [2021-02-20 01:59:09 +0000 UTC]

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    Tiktail [2014-12-02 14:51:38 +0000 UTC]

    It destroyed mine, and Cyber-Bullying, too. 
    You try to forget, but you can't.
    Bullying is just not a couple of insults, but to harass people and say fallacies about them, hurt them physically, and pshicologically, threaten them, etc, etc...

    I know. I lived it.

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    J25TheArcKing [2014-11-10 00:56:49 +0000 UTC]

    I agree with this stamp.

    I got bullied because of my appearance. But my relatives protected me. Then years I got bullied again, but the teachers protected me and the bully is no longer a bully after she got in trouble. But I can not forgive that person for bullying me for the whole entire school year. Years again... I got bullied, because I was sitting on a table and this person didn't like me. But my friends helped me by protecting me.

    Bullying and cyber Bullying is for wussies.

    Genocide, Malaysia Plane shot down, the KKK, Nazism, bullying, cyber bullying, wars, terrorism, disasters such as tsunamis, earthquake and tornados, bank robberies, drug cartels are a lot worst than somebody being different, liking a certain music, show, book, movie, game, hobby...

    It doesn't matter if a person is skinny, fat, small, tall, straight, bisexual, gay, transgender, any skin color, wears glasses, likes a certain music, show, book, movie game, hobby. As long as they're nice and not causing harm.

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    Old-Marcie1234 [2014-10-26 00:27:18 +0000 UTC]

    I think that in order to call further attention to the topic, why not call it abuse/slander?
    It's not always physical.

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    Dinoscroll [2014-10-13 00:57:41 +0000 UTC]

    "Sticks and stones may break your bones, but words can't" ACCEPT WORDS DO HURT

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    DudelSaur In reply to Dinoscroll [2014-12-05 03:40:37 +0000 UTC]

    Worst quote ever.   Who made that up?

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    Dinoscroll In reply to DudelSaur [2014-12-05 10:44:49 +0000 UTC]

    Which part?

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    DudelSaur In reply to Dinoscroll [2014-12-05 17:12:00 +0000 UTC]

    Oh the "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me".
    I agree with you. Whoever thought of that quote was a moron. XC

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    Dinoscroll In reply to DudelSaur [2014-12-05 23:44:09 +0000 UTC]

    No idea

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    TotallyDeviantLisa [2014-09-07 20:39:59 +0000 UTC]

    Me and my two friends were bullied too. A nasty boy told one of them shouted that se got hit by a bus while she was away to medical education, and a girl said that the other friend was pregnant. I was so angry!!!

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    Miha-Chi [2014-06-09 03:03:09 +0000 UTC]

    I've had a deviant bully me and my sister because she thought she was more superior than me. I eventually burned her ass when I snapped at her really bad.

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    zachary6387 [2014-01-11 12:33:47 +0000 UTC]

    I got bullied by a deviant for calling be "poor bastard" in the forums! This deviant has serious issues..

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