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Published: 2012-07-27 16:57:08 +0000 UTC; Views: 16644; Favourites: 813; Downloads: 0
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"It's only been in the past few years that the battered male syndrome has gotten serious attention. The latest percentage of battered men was placed at approximately 36% or roughly 835,000 of the 2.3 million abuse cases reported yearly. Researchers believe that those figures are far from accurate for the obvious reason that most men are very reluctant to admit they have been victims of abuse."Just like how I oppose male rape. I find that the fact nearly no males ever come forward during abuse just sad and depressing.
Women are always the ones that are raped, beaten, hurt, sexually harassed, and depicted as victims on the news. When men are so ashamed they don't ever want their name and face shown after those things happen.
Not saying females don't suffer, but I am saying men don't get much slack or comfort -if any- when they're the victim.
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In some societies females are feeling more and more empowered and much like some races and ethnicities they are indulging so much in the rights they've got they can push things too far. We want equality not females making men suffer for all the years they were repressed, we want equality not Jews slaughtering Germans for the past, just like we want equality not African Americans enslaving Americans for what was done to their ancestors.
If we simply act like vengeance-craving dogs we'll become what we hate. If the tables are turned then the cycle's just going in reverse.
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Lol thanks!Β
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I can't stand it! Dx My best friend gets beaten by his girlfriend and he doesn't do anything but cry. I've called the police, but because of my mental disorder they didn't believe me. In fact, Roy didn't even admit that she beats him. He has TEN band-aids on his face and a countless amount all over his body. It's not fair that someone so kind, love able and caring gets beaten because he's weak (his parents beat him as a child, so he's a good target for abusive women and rapists). Life isn't fair at all! Dx
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I think we should forget the past and focus on today. Today, in theory, we're all equal, same rights same duties.
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Given this is happening more and more in the present I will disagree with you. Since this is a rising thing here and now it's something to talk about.
Women aren't treated as equals, nor homosexuals or transgenders. There's so many who can't even get a job or be treated right theoretically.Β
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It's because now people are fighting for their rights and gainning the equality bit by bit.
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Which should of been done sooner in my opinion.
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Better later than never.
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not really a female, but ja.
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Well I intended the female part of it to emphasize that certain groups of females are pro-abuse and men will not know which are against it or for it.Β
So this was more to emphasize the anti-male abuse half of the spectrum than anything.
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I hope people actual realize that they might see women being abusive to the opposite gender more often then they realize it. Yes, I do admit that a male being abusive to a women is horrid. But I hope that people realize that woman are stronger than male (Physical? Half of the time), and by that I mean that ,well, lets say that a man decides to stop the abuse and the only way to actually get away from his partner is to push them away, and so he does. That's okay but the problem with that is that the woman can yell abuse and people will believe her. Not so much with a male. Like in an episode of 'What would you do?' they had two scenarios. One a man abusing a female (we'll call this scene A) and the other one a female abusing a male (We'll can this scene B).
In Scene A more people stood up for the woman, but in Scene B, not so much. Almost all the people that saw it thought that the man had cheated on the woman and she was getting revenge and only one lady told the woman to stop beating on the man.
Society has taught us that men are the ones that do the abuse and the raping while the females are the ones that play the victims, when in fact men can get abused by woman and other men and ladies can get abused by other women. Also Women can get raped by other women, and a man can get raped by other man and females (And I heard that men get raped more. Prison rape People).
This is one problem that I hate about life......
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WOAH THIS IS DEEP.
FYI. I saw that episode, and it made my blood boil that nobody helped the man, because they thought she was getting revenge.
^ THIS IS EPIC.
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Umm.. Thank you! And I know! No matter whats happens and why she was beating him they should have helped. They didn't know if it would've caused major scars (Physical and Mental)! I would've helped. There no reason to be beating anyone!
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You're welcome, and Yeah. I would have helped, the way he was literally afraid I would have jumped right in and stopped her.
Yes there's just no reason to beat anyone -A-!
To the degree she did, and even in real life situations.
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Thanks. Sorry if it was deep.
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Perfectly alright, I enjoy honest and deep comments.
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So do I. I don't like society, or most feminist (I think some of them try more for both men and women being equal, not trying to just have women have rights or is that something else?). I like the truth to be spoken.
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Why can't we just be equal? I wouldn't want to live in a World where men beat up women or vice-versa
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I want both sexes to treat one another equally as well.
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what really kiss me is that with this stupid "men can't hit women but women can hit men" law is that if a girl's comin' at you with a knife, you can't really fight back, but yet a girl can just absolutely slaughter a guy with a knife, logic? what is that?
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If she/he is bold enough to strike someone, then the other person -regardless of gender- has every right to defend themselves. It's not a one way street and people really need to get that in their heads. Neither sex should be smacking each other, but they definitely should not get away with it based on their sex.
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i couldn't agree more.
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when people see a woman hitting a man, their first reaction is always "he probably deserves it" or "he must have done something to piss her off." they always assume it's the guy's own fault for getting beat up. women just can't be abusive. here's a video about this stuff:[link]
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One time my friend was slapping her brother. I started screaming "domestic violence" and separated them. They think I do because it's funny to them. But it's because I'm afraid someone will walk past and think it is. Also I saw a girl one by this store district by my house beating her boyfriend with a high heel. he was crying and screaming for help. I felt weird. My mom said to ignore them. But I just couldn't...so I agree with you. Domestic violence against men makes me very uncomfortable.
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Jeez. . . some people, that's just wrong honestly. Especially when the other person's crying and screaming I mean how can people ignore that?
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I know. But when we drove past again the girl was being questioned by the police while a docter was putting the boys arm in a sling. My mom said "Bless the Lord for the person that called the police." Then she told me to pray about these things. But I just hope that that boy is okay.
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I remember one time in highschool, I saw a girl slam her boyfriend's head into a glass table simply because he was planning to go to the movies with a female friend. She would beat the poor fella pretty hard sometimes that even her own friends told her to stop & would pull her away. Worst of all, is despite her claims of him cheating, not only did he never do it but she was the one who was (3 guys). I heard he left her, but I'm seriously hoping he never went back & found someone nice.
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Jesus. . . that guy deserves a medal for being able to stand such abuse, I would never ever harm a man that bad. Only in self defense or if he was about to be hurt/doing something dangerous. People like that upset me so much.
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Me & some friends waited until after his girlfriend left on another occasion to clean his wounds (bitch's nails were long & she dug them into his back just because he didn't take her to a restaurant she liked). She's a pretty awful person & I'm hoping she changed since that was about 3 yrs ago. Women here can get a bit aggressive even if the guy hasn't done anything (15% of all reports were from men & it wasn't even brought up until a popular reporter was beat up by his policewoman girlfriend (he looked as messed up as the Rihanna photos)
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Whoa, that sounds brutal.
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It was. The problem that surged from it was recognizing that there's no shelters for men since females are afraid of them even though they've been through the same. At least one could help make a difference
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Indeed, a few shelters for men would make a world of difference.
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Speaking of that, a woman here in Brazil called Christina Rocha says she HATES men beating women, but in the show she hosts called Casos de FamΓlia(Family Cases), she could care less if a woman actually SAYS she beats her husband.
And worse, when she was a guest in a show hosted by Raul Gil, she said that if a man is abused by his wife, all he needs to do is be nice to her, kiss her, and be caring towards her and she'll stop abusing him. As if being kind to your abuser was some sort of magical key.
I hope someday, a woman ACTUALLY calls Christina Rocha out. But it'll be even better if a man does it.
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Really? I don't knew about that. I hate so much this woman now... (And I used to like to watch this show)
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I think a woman calling another woman out on bullshit like that is what would be best.
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By the way, she said that to CHILDREN! She's trying to corrupt CHILDREN!
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Aka, a decent fucking human being
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Anyway, it used to be women that were always oppressed. Now, it's slowly shifting to the other way around. I am a guy, and it really, really darkens my mood to hear that some women think they have the privelege to act like a twat to men, attack them, and get away with it. I am not saying men are better, but I say that men are becoming the new victim of this abuse.
It's like when the women say men are the bad guys for doing something identical to what the WOMEN did to the MEN. I have a female friend that sometimes is really rude to me, but when I do the same thing to defend myself, somehow I am the only one to blame.
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Agreed, I support more equal treatment, if they are big enough to do it, then doing it back should be self-defense(under correct circumstances).
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...How can this happen to people in general?
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What do you mean by that question? Are you asking how it happens to anyone or just men?
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How can it happen to anyone? ;.;
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How:
Extreme sadists,
people who hate someone enough to do it,
misguided people,
someone being angry and not thinking, power trips,
abused becoming an abuser,
victims becoming victimizers,
abusive relationships gone wrong,
people who can't take no for an answer,
people think they were "wanting it" based on an action or outfit,
drunken fiascoes,
drug abuse,
dominating partners who neglect the submissive pleas,
and about sixty other things.
That's how.
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Oh. Well, that makes sense, I guess. :<
Thank you for making this stamp.
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Yeah, it's part of life sadly.
You're welcome.
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