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I been noticing certain stamps about this. Example of one claiming it's "crazy" to do this maybe.
I'm sorry, but how?
What's so wrong with believing that maybe they could be there in spirituality, or so? Nobody actually knows this. If you call that crazy (for having some kind of 'faith' (is this the right word?)), then you might as well call someone "crazy" for believing in any forms of spirituality then maybe.

HOWEVER

We shouldn't be calling something it's self crazy unless that something it's self can cause problems. Real problems.
And with this, there can possibly be a problem.
Though, "wrong" shouldn't be used on something that doesn't involve hurting other people.


"Crazy" vs Not "Crazy"

Note: I quote "crazy" because it's more subjective, but it's a bit more understandable closer to people who has a more fair understandable reason.


"Crazy" - Example
A person who believes they are real and dating or marrying to the point that you go to restaurants, and ask "Two" (Even though there is 1 physically with the unknown of the other) and basically orders food for the 'other', etc. Controlling your life, etc.

NOT "Crazy" - Example
A person who believes they are real (often in the understandable sense of spirituality, multiverse, etc.), and whether or not he/she believes they are, goes to a restaurant, the person still asks for 'one', does not order food. Maybe "pretend" a little that this person is their, maybe believe a bit, and etc.
(EDIT 9/15/2015 I should of said "A person who believes they are real and are 'dating' or 'marrying' them. As you can do that too and still not be crazy. EDIT DONE)

Noticed the second example? It's harmless, it barely controls your life. It could 'effect' your life, but in a possible good way.
If something like this makes you happy, gives you more energy, etc. Then this is a healthy thing, as you know, what promotes health through mentality is personal to each individual.
If there are some problems you do run in, try to control it. You could make a mistake or two, but that would be like anything like for example: Going grocery shopping, but you got way too much stuff.

Encouraging Health
While it really depends.
A sane person who has a belief like that can use this for health.

Health example: If you are lost, have no one around you, you feel very alone, etc. You go crazy, then all of a sudden, you had that 'spiritual' belief of that maybe someone is there, and it's something from Star Wars. You try to engage into that belief, and what happens next? Calm comes, as you were about to lose it. But you don't anymore because of what you just did.

There is also people who are NOT attracted to humans, at all. And I believe this is one way to deal with that.

Oh interesting: Even though I have mixed opinions about that one subject, if you guys want to avoid 'bestiality' (real 100% non-human animals), then start promoting this 'dating' and 'marrying', idea, etc. to fictional characters. And that could actually prevent that further.
(EDIT 9/15/2015 - 9:46 Central - This is more about less human characters. EDIT DONE)

Other

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Also no, JUST because an "official" person said this or that with a fictional character, doesn't mean the person can't use 'non-canon' beliefs, etc.
Even if the person said "they are just fiction, not real", doesn't mean the person in private can't believe that.
Scientifically, 'Copyright' owners cannot control spirituality, the multiverse, etc. And they don't have a right (or shouldn't) to monopolize someone in private. Period.
Besides, I don't think Copyright has anything to do with things like this.. Yet, Copyright is in fact a monopoly.
Also, I think Copyright was originality for money, and it had an expiration date.. and for a reason or more than two.

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Anyway, it's not crazy to have this belief it's self. AND IT'S NOT WRONG. Morality should stay out of this. Unless it depends on how you express it, etc. Though telling people that it's "wrong".. IS wrong because it violates the Golden Rule.

While some people believe it's fine to like a character but not have any sense of it being real, or even want to, then what's the point of liking a character? If I had the believe (that actually doesn't know everything beyond, etc) of that, then it would feel useless.

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What about me? I won't give so much detail out, but I will admit, sometimes I do imagine that someone I like is there, etc. Maybe through the spiritual world, but it doesn't control me.
I don't do that whole limited thing with the whole restaurant example, I don't fucking complain about people making porn of "my" (Nobody owns it) favorite character, and etc.
And no: Popular belief is not fact.
Science, Experiences, Individual, Faith > Popular belief.

And also, for those who ARE in that kind of feeling, like involving people doing stuff to "your" character copy.
Consider this:
There is an infinite number of parallel universes out there, there are billions of copies of what you like.
Next time you see "your" character (Either your own OC, or a character from a show, etc.) being drawn in ways you don't like, realized it's not really "yours", but instead, it's another 'copy' from another universe.

Kinda fun to think about eh?

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WARNING: I have stalkers on here. They may love subjects like these.
Please ignore what they say, they will depend on popularity, and promote unhealthy harm against the individual by mocking, humiliate, act bigoted against, and other cyberbullying/abusive stuff. (Either one or more too)

They don't respect opinions and Freedom of Speech at all, and doesn't believe in freedom.

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Comments: 59

chibiuverworld [2019-02-11 21:11:24 +0000 UTC]

It has to be under control. Just don't stubbornly believe they are real.

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snowkyu [2018-12-20 06:32:42 +0000 UTC]

Miku is my waifu for laifu <3

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LeaderWhiteFang [2018-07-26 01:12:59 +0000 UTC]

I think you make some excellent points! I mean I get that people may take it too far, but I see nothing wrong with it. I personally say I'm married to Drift from the IDW Transformers comic books. And he brings me a lot of comfort. He's my safe place and my happy place. He's gotten me through a lot of rough times in my life.

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Stargate-Tries13 [2018-06-28 05:00:51 +0000 UTC]

Being a ficto,, I realllllyyy love this! And to any people who think going out with fictional people is because you cannot be socual, my and my boyfriend are in a very happy relationship with an oc if ours, and it’s amazing! Again, I love love love this stamp

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Paultrol [2018-04-06 18:31:52 +0000 UTC]

So true.

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DimrillDale-236344 [2018-02-25 17:11:36 +0000 UTC]

Can I fave this 100x times? Thank you so much for creating this!!

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xXNatoriousXx [2018-01-30 06:42:41 +0000 UTC]

They have the freedom of speech to express their delusions.
We have the freedom of speech to make fun of it.
Like this guy:Β www.youtube.com/watch?v=lPyhly…

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wwwarea In reply to xXNatoriousXx [2018-02-20 00:34:05 +0000 UTC]

And people have the freedom of speech to call that asshole out.
Hell I wonder if that crap is considered cyberbullying. Discrimination to certain groups isn't protected speech and some websites ban certain behavior.

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xXNatoriousXx In reply to wwwarea [2018-02-20 00:43:09 +0000 UTC]

What about it is discrimination?

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wwwarea In reply to xXNatoriousXx [2018-02-20 14:15:53 +0000 UTC]

While this kind of discrimination might not traditionally be under law, I do find it a form of discrimination because when for example, someone develops a fetish that is vore, it becomes part of them. Not just a sexual preference that does, but so does deep personality with emotion too. It's kinda like being a furry on the sexual experience and non-sexual experience side, and that may effect you to have a natural carrier with it. To see someone get cyberbullied to the point of going off the internet mainly over a harmless furry personality with some PokΓ©mon is just morally wrong and wrong as a form of discrimination for example. I.e. Development is what makes you, you later in life.
That guy looked like he had his own carrier and future with making music, but of course, some people didn't allow that to happen because society in general hates others.

I'm so different because of something that kinda reminds me of his, though I keep it more to myself but I am sick of doing that, and seeing discrimination like this adds unhealthy lifestyles such as depression. His thing alone wasn't unhealthy because it could boost a happy life. Ruining someone's life on the internet for such personality is not healthy.

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SkullWoggle [2018-01-05 03:52:35 +0000 UTC]

Amen!

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tultsi93 [2017-08-18 07:09:01 +0000 UTC]

I personally keep these people insane, but I don't still bash them. If Eichiro Oda doesn't give a shit about it, so why should I?

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Wreckham [2017-07-09 22:27:02 +0000 UTC]

i don't think ppl who "date" or "marry" fictional characters are crazy, i think they're so severely socially stunted and pitiful that they can't form meaningful relationships with other people

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ChametzKiwi [2017-06-15 17:43:13 +0000 UTC]

Mettaton is my lover for life <3
well In my dreams at least..

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13thefreerunner [2017-01-22 01:16:13 +0000 UTC]

Being a ficto myself I highly appreciate this stamp




You know because humanity isn't that great. You know when your friends leave you out of everything they do, spending all day in your room and not being able to start a conversation because you're scared of saying the wrong thing- so you know screw humanity and just hang out with a fictional character not do the whole "table for two" thing like you mentioned but heck during the past month I've found more comfort in my family andΒ fictional boyfriend than any other human beings including my friends.

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Angelivine In reply to 13thefreerunner [2020-01-08 19:55:40 +0000 UTC]

I totally understand you, I'm in the same situation. Being left behind and discovering people are just making fun of you, not being sincere with their relationship with you... It's one of the most hurting things. But as fictophiles, we can finally find comfort in a world where everyone (more or less) is judging and leaving people alone as soon as they have issues.

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CelticWarriorMoon In reply to 13thefreerunner [2018-03-26 20:15:13 +0000 UTC]

YES SAME OMG

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13thefreerunner In reply to CelticWarriorMoon [2018-05-12 00:24:48 +0000 UTC]

It's been a while since being in a fictional relationship but I still support other people's decisions on this.

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ask-kevlron [2016-10-14 18:25:17 +0000 UTC]

This is fine and everything.

BUT, consider this: Β When you've found that "Perfect" person, would they really be interested in you?

(This is not hate, just food for thought.)

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DeliaSymbols [2016-08-13 06:06:13 +0000 UTC]

I'm in love with Iris Heart Β Β from Hyperdimension Neptunia, and I'm happy with that.

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Pix-Cali-Tropic [2016-07-31 00:33:51 +0000 UTC]

I am in love with WALL-E, so there's nothing wring with that. (Says the female Pixar fan who knows just how cute that robot is!)

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Aeskulapmoth [2016-07-30 10:52:12 +0000 UTC]

The description sums it up the best

It keeps me from being mixed up with those crazy examples as well

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NocturnalMyliobatis [2016-01-19 16:55:02 +0000 UTC]

I ship myself with him...(even other people ship me with him XD))
(noshame)

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KalineReine [2016-01-07 15:31:35 +0000 UTC]

I just want to say... Thank you so much for making this! Really. ;w;

I can relate to this exactly, and to the points which you've made about it. And it's about time DA had a stamp like this! β™₯ I'm involved with a certain fictional someone too. I'm not afraid to admit it. I love him.Β If that's wrong, then I don't want to be right. uwu Maybe it's overrated anyway. And if it makes someone happy, then who is anyone else to say it's wrong? It's just harmless fun that hurts no one. The truth is... You can't help who you fall in love with. The heart wants what it wants.Β 

Also, I find it hilarious the way most people assume that just because I'm in love with a fictional character that it means I can't or don't have a real life relationship too. So funny... xD There are people out there who are polyamorous, even if it isn't the social norm. It's sort of like that. I have a real relationship that's been going strong for over 4 years now and I love him dearly as well. He knows about my feelings for this fictional person and is completely okay with it. (Even thinks it's cute sometimes, and well, he's sort of the one who introduced us but I have had relationships with several fictional characters in the past, but I'm not going to go into all of that, lol.)Β 

I don't get jealous when I see other people pairing their OCs with the character I love, it's totally okay with me, for the exact reason you were talking about in your artist comment here. Because it's just like you said, multiple universes. Yep. (And it is SO neat to think about, omg!) If anything, I like seeing others pair their OC with him because it gives us some common ground and reminds me that I'm not alone with this struggle. It doesn't hurt anyone, and it's actually an awesome coping mechanism. Some of my fictional relationships have gotten me through some really rough times and they help with my depression and anxiety a lot too.Β 

I can tell you're probably speaking from experience here and... I just wanted to let you know that you're not as alone with this as you might think. Although it's not every day that I meet others who are like me, so just... I guess what I am basically saying is thank you for existing? c:

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celestiaIwings [2015-11-16 01:44:00 +0000 UTC]

I'm married to Jafar from Aladdin. What's so wrong about that? People always tell me I'm "messed up" or that's "disgusting"/"wrong." But I'm not hurting them. To be honest, my love life is none of their business anyway! Would they rather have me murder someone for him? (Reference to the Slenderman Stabbing case.) Thank you for this stamp.

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younow32 In reply to celestiaIwings [2016-04-01 18:13:38 +0000 UTC]

Then you're insane and disconnected from reality. I don't see you being a productive member of society.

You should leave so I don't have to pay taxes when you eventually end up in prison for trying to rape a man that looks like Jafar.

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KalineReine In reply to celestiaIwings [2016-01-07 15:22:47 +0000 UTC]

There's nothing wrong with it at all. I'm married to Ace from One Piece, and well, I love him. β™₯ If that's wrong, then I don't want to be right. uwu Maybe it's overrated anyway. I just wanted to let you know that there are others out there who do the same thing. I support you doing whatever makes you happy and keeps you going.Β 

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Deviddo [2015-11-12 00:34:24 +0000 UTC]

Hidden by Owner

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wwwarea In reply to Deviddo [2015-11-16 00:57:24 +0000 UTC]

People like you are the reason why I argue that 'mental illnesses' may not exist.

Maybe your bigotry is the mental illness.

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younow32 In reply to wwwarea [2016-04-01 18:13:55 +0000 UTC]

How does mental illness not exist?

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Sailor-Rebecca [2015-09-30 14:45:38 +0000 UTC]

Why am I not surprised this stamp was made by you, lol.

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wwwarea In reply to Sailor-Rebecca [2015-10-02 12:22:16 +0000 UTC]

Guess it's because you don't like finding the type of people who cares about differences of each other.

I'm possibly one of the rare people who promotes love and tolerance for others involving the Golden Rule.

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Sailor-Rebecca In reply to wwwarea [2015-10-02 13:37:33 +0000 UTC]

Says the person who whines and cries when someone doesn't like your favourite movie.Β 

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wwwarea In reply to Sailor-Rebecca [2015-10-04 11:16:35 +0000 UTC]

Someone judging an art-style of some artists doesn't sound like respect in the first place.
Also, someone disagreeing and defending doesn't violate the Golden Rule.

If you really respected Freedom of Speech, you would of know the fact that it's a two way street, not one.

Oh and I don't whine JUST because of someone not liking a movie.

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Sailor-Rebecca In reply to wwwarea [2015-10-04 16:44:52 +0000 UTC]

Yes you do. If anyone DARES to criticze your favourite movie, you whine at them. That's not freedom of speech as you aren't allowing them to state their opinion.

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wwwarea In reply to Sailor-Rebecca [2015-10-05 10:10:00 +0000 UTC]

Arguing an opinion IS freedom of speech.
Telling me I can't argue them is the opposite of supporting freedom of speech.

If they are allowed to talk crap about a movie, I'm allowed to talk back as well. Just like anyone else.

Besides I think not respecting an opinion is when you personally insult maybe. Yet besides too if I had to agree with you on that, then I'm pretty sure judging a intentional purpose isn't respect either then.

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Sailor-Rebecca In reply to wwwarea [2015-10-05 16:57:32 +0000 UTC]

Not respecting an opinion usually has statements taht boil down to "YOU CAN'T DISAGREE WITH ME!!!11!!" It doesn't have to be insults.

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wwwarea In reply to Sailor-Rebecca [2015-10-07 10:34:06 +0000 UTC]

Sorry but disagreeing and arguing isn't disrespecting personal opinion. I do not know if you mean that but either way.

Besides if I can't disagree then maybe certain hate reviews shouldn't be there because they disrespect opinions of other artists.

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Pyroglifix [2015-09-26 16:35:50 +0000 UTC]

haha, i dont really think im dating fictional characters, but sometimes i'll joke around with my friends and say "ooh Β _____ is cute." and they'll say "really" and i'll jokingly say "of course, shes my girlfriend"

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wwwarea In reply to Pyroglifix [2015-09-26 22:10:27 +0000 UTC]

Even though I might sometimes feel like a character I actually like is 'their' somehow, I might just joke with certain other characters! Haha

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Pyroglifix In reply to wwwarea [2015-09-26 23:44:33 +0000 UTC]

haha!

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Lola-Rola [2015-09-26 09:08:02 +0000 UTC]

meh im not the one to judge
i ship myself with hatsune miku
*waits 4 people to attack me*

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CuteManaka16 [2015-09-16 17:59:44 +0000 UTC]

I honestly see nothing's wrong with that. If that makes them happy, it is their choice.

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Little-rolling-bean [2015-09-16 06:32:20 +0000 UTC]

I find it silly, but not wrong. As long as they are not going "WAHHHHHHHHHHHH DAT PERSON IS STEALLLING MAH WAIFUUUU", I let them do their silly little thing and not judge

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wwwarea In reply to Little-rolling-bean [2015-09-16 07:24:21 +0000 UTC]

Like you mean you personality find it silly?
Hmm isn't saying "their silly thing" kinda a judgement in a way? xD

Though one thing I find more (like close to actual) unnecessary (In my personal opinion) is trying to use 'traditional' marriage with a fictional character; a person holds a picture of a fiction character at a real looking wedding, and this guy is like "You may kiss the bride.", etc. xD

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Aeskulapmoth In reply to wwwarea [2016-07-30 10:57:07 +0000 UTC]

NOW THAT is really unecessary XD
Some people just feel like overdoing it sometimes

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Little-rolling-bean In reply to wwwarea [2015-09-16 08:09:39 +0000 UTC]

Of course personally. But I know its harmless, so I cannot say anything against it. I just think its a little silly, but not bad. Like, I understand having a crush on a fictional character, but saying you are married to them is silly IMO. Not bad.Β 
But yeah, if they get obessed with it I will get concerned.

I agree, a legit wedding to a fictional character does sound very silly. Plus it implies they are obessed with the relationship, making me concerned. Of course they could be sane, just a little silly, like all of us. But you get what I mean XD
But hey, at least the two newlyweds wont fight and break up, right?

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wwwarea In reply to Little-rolling-bean [2015-09-17 07:27:13 +0000 UTC]

I thought like personality avoiding it I think. xD
I think I see, though morally I think it applies with other people (physical people on this planet if you know what I mean. lol). I think 'marry' can be a belief under the faith of spirituality, but it's not known for certain, but it's fine to still adapt I guess. xD

Ah. xD And by concern, you mean just worried?
And yeah, though I won't find it silly personality but alright.
And yeah.. xD Unless the guy really creates that himself.

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Little-rolling-bean In reply to wwwarea [2015-09-17 08:58:35 +0000 UTC]

Marriage is a sensitive subject. I am fine people not supporting non traditional marrige within their religion (gay marrige, fictinal marrige, etc). I just ask for them to not interfere with a relationship.Β 

Worried as in, if someone gets obessed with a fictinal relationship, it becomes unhealthy and can hurt others sometimes. Like, they will attack people for shipping that character with someone else for example.Β 

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wwwarea In reply to Little-rolling-bean [2015-09-18 20:53:57 +0000 UTC]

Oh. And like ask them to not interfere with other relationships outside of the 'fictional relationship'? (Bother someone Else's)

Ah alright. xD

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