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UPDATE:
I found this interesting URL:
definitions.uslegal.com/c/cybe…
UPDATE DONE

Also, I suggest looking here too.


I was looking around and saw a disgusting video trying to shame someone for having a "fart fetish".
I was like "What the fucking hell is wrong with having one? Who fucking cares?" or something.

It was like a small "popular" guy trying to expose this guy for having it, trying to shame him in the public for it. I mean what the fuck did that "fart loving" person do to him?
This is also why I am afraid to come out myself I think.

Now I have no right to tell others 'him/her' to take some offensive opinions against him/her' as offensive, but I'm sure many don't want to be shamed for coming out of the closet for there own "fetish". This type of stuff hurts, or can. Some people may not care being shamed and I respect that, but many people probably do like me.
Hell, you cannot even "choose" to simply not like a "fetish". Though I hear some can kinda get over it some (Same can happen to even the common stuff, I call it a shift).. Though it may depend on how they grew up with it. For me, I cannot choose and I don't need to I think.
And I believe it's PART of your orientation. Like it's part of the orientation development as growing up.

Because of shaming people, or humiliating them in public for coming out or just having one can be very offensive, hurtful, etc.. Trying to get society to either censor the guy, or do worse things to him for having one is nearly (Or worse) much the same as 'slut shaming'.
Want to know what 'slut shaming' brought?
HERE:
jezebel.com/5955093/slut-shame…
www.xojane.com/issues/bullying…

Now what if "fetish shaming" leads to it?

Honestly, shaming anyone publicly should be illegal. And I do not want to hear that "You can get over it" crap because that obviously won't work for everyone due to the effects.
Even if suicide isn't happening, it can possibly still be very painful to others.

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Yes, this isn't the only thing I wish to be considered illegal. I believe trying to ruin someone's lives for expressing themselves (Internet or not) is very effective, abusive, and just 'wrong'. So it should be illegal. Even if it's just trying to control/censor someone's lives. Choice or not (e.g.Expressing your physical self).
 Back to "fetishes", having a fetish or expressing it or both without forcing doesn't hurt people, but shaming or humiliating or both ways to people for having it or expressing it in public, can.

People get to have the "shitty" common boring human kissing stuff and even openly express deeper things (Witcher 3 anyone?) but not even (possibly) a tamed down simple anthropomorphism vore, legs, boobs, whatever? What about 'giant'? Is that even a 'sexuality'? It's more like a "way" for something greater. lol

This is successfully part of the 3 reasons as to why I'm a misanthrope generally. - Reason 1: Abuse, unfair, etc. against those who are different.

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MCTheMagicalCat [2024-04-13 01:16:33 +0000 UTC]

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Dragonlord-Daegen [2023-02-04 16:54:22 +0000 UTC]

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GoyangiStudios32 [2022-12-31 07:38:59 +0000 UTC]

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LeaderofWokeness1312 [2022-12-10 16:22:04 +0000 UTC]

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DrakarDTheMiisexual [2022-08-14 09:51:13 +0000 UTC]

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wwwarea [2021-09-18 06:09:45 +0000 UTC]

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qwesfh34 [2021-09-12 14:10:40 +0000 UTC]

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wwwarea In reply to qwesfh34 [2021-09-18 06:04:03 +0000 UTC]

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1candystar [2021-09-10 02:49:39 +0000 UTC]

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wwwarea In reply to 1candystar [2021-09-18 06:05:51 +0000 UTC]

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Dragonlord-Daegen In reply to wwwarea [2023-02-04 16:41:55 +0000 UTC]

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That-one-fangir1 In reply to wwwarea [2022-08-09 12:42:42 +0000 UTC]

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wwwarea In reply to That-one-fangir1 [2022-08-12 03:23:03 +0000 UTC]

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That-one-fangir1 In reply to wwwarea [2022-08-12 12:09:07 +0000 UTC]

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wwwarea In reply to That-one-fangir1 [2022-08-16 20:27:06 +0000 UTC]

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That-one-fangir1 [2021-08-31 22:02:12 +0000 UTC]

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DariusRotteen [2021-07-08 22:04:29 +0000 UTC]

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munyal12 [2021-02-07 21:54:12 +0000 UTC]

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JR-verse [2020-12-01 04:40:32 +0000 UTC]

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TheSuperMegaGengar [2020-11-18 21:19:30 +0000 UTC]

I mean...it depends on the fetish.

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Cupcakecutie666 [2019-10-23 15:47:12 +0000 UTC]

Agreed

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Miyonn [2019-08-22 02:56:22 +0000 UTC]

Hidden by Commenter

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wwwarea In reply to Miyonn [2019-08-23 05:13:57 +0000 UTC]

If the person confuses it with reality, then I think that's an example of something f***ed up. XD

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stupidmiku [2019-06-19 00:04:03 +0000 UTC]

shut up about your armpit fetish then

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wwwarea In reply to stupidmiku [2019-08-23 05:15:40 +0000 UTC]

Maybe a lot of us will if everyone (and probably you too) shut up about common romance that is usually crammed down our throats.
And also, your comment is victim blaming.

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Bambrap [2018-12-21 05:09:21 +0000 UTC]

It does hurt

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Wreckham [2017-07-09 22:35:43 +0000 UTC]

>argues about how important freedom of speech is
>wants to make telling perverts they're icky illegal
pick
one

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Leytala-Velnial In reply to Wreckham [2019-08-11 17:29:16 +0000 UTC]

As the person below me stated kinkshaming is like bitching when your best friend likes chocolate cake when you don't. Hating a fetish is fine, but it is not okay to be rude to people about it.



Besides, most people keep their fetish STRICTLY in fiction

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Wreckham In reply to Leytala-Velnial [2019-08-11 20:52:36 +0000 UTC]

Tragically, I don't care. Maybe if people kept their fetishes in private or only in spaces designed to cater to them (so, you know, NOT deviantArt) they wouldn't get made fun of. Food for thot

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Leytala-Velnial In reply to Wreckham [2019-08-11 21:09:04 +0000 UTC]

You know lots of fetishes (like vore and inflation) is present in kids shows and the like

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Wreckham In reply to Leytala-Velnial [2019-08-11 21:19:34 +0000 UTC]

And that makes it okay because..?

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Leytala-Velnial In reply to Wreckham [2019-08-11 22:31:10 +0000 UTC]

Because there is NOTHING in the rules that says people can't draw that kind of art.

And you know if you switch to Eclipse, you can mute tags

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Wreckham In reply to Leytala-Velnial [2019-08-12 17:20:24 +0000 UTC]

There's also nothing in that rules that says I can't voice my opinion of that kinda art, and anyone who dislikes it can, and is encouraged to, block me. Wow! Cool, amirite?

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Leytala-Velnial In reply to Wreckham [2019-08-12 17:31:32 +0000 UTC]

You're right, you are allowed to voice your opinion on that kind of art...just not on peoples art

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Wreckham In reply to Leytala-Velnial [2019-08-12 21:28:29 +0000 UTC]

Nope! I am entirely allowed to say anything I'd like on anyone's art. Everyone on this site is, for better or for worse. And if OP doesn't like it, he can block me and delete my comments.

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Leytala-Velnial In reply to Wreckham [2019-08-12 21:48:19 +0000 UTC]

Sorry kiddo but this line from the FAQ says differently



"members may not make statements which are racist, bigoted, or which contain other forms of hate speech.

Use of any of the communication tools provided to you for the purpose of hateful speech or deliberately aggressive or abusive behavior can result in your DeviantArt profile receiving disciplinary action.
"


Here's the FAQ if you don't believe me <3 www.deviantartsupport.com/en/a…



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Wreckham In reply to Leytala-Velnial [2019-08-13 16:17:08 +0000 UTC]

"Kiddo" hunty I'm older then you.

Making fun of your fetishes isn't hate speech, no matter how badly you people want jeering at you to be comparable to racism and bigotry. Nothing I've said constitutes hate speech or really even bullying.
All I've said is OP is a hypocrite )and an icky pervert, but name calling isn't hate speech), people shouldn't put their fetish porn on dA, and that I'm allowed to voice my opinion on the matter. If that's too hard for you to understand or accept, then I feel sorry for you.

deviantArt also makes it pretty apparent they don't give a damn about drama and petty internet arguments unless someone will not back off after you've taken measures to keep them from communicating with you (hint: this is what harassment is). OP hasn't asked me to stop talking, deleted or reported my comments (tho if he did nothing has happened so I'm innocent lol), or tried to block me, so so long as the things I say on his art aren't akin to what the KKK says, I can do as I like.

Btw, your signature is very funny given the argument we're in. Making fun of fanfic is okay but making fun of fetishists for their whining isn't? k

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GalaxyRailways2199 In reply to Wreckham [2019-12-09 22:41:29 +0000 UTC]

Flagged as Spam

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Wreckham In reply to GalaxyRailways2199 [2019-12-09 22:55:34 +0000 UTC]

you rly just gonna come in here popping off about a conversation that you both never participated in and that has been over for literal months and you accuse ME of being the whiny one. typical
i was willing to leave well enough alone past this point. if you want me to shut up about fetishists, don't try and coax me back into bitching about them by leaving an inflammatory comment

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GalaxyRailways2199 In reply to Wreckham [2019-12-09 22:56:36 +0000 UTC]

Flagged as Spam

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Wreckham In reply to GalaxyRailways2199 [2019-12-09 23:03:36 +0000 UTC]

so you're willing to potentially add fuel to the fire by giving all those uber meanie fetish haterz something else to gripe about? how quaint

and also how very presumptuous of you. rly, do you expect that, regardless of my behavior or my stance here, you're going to either change my mind or make the world a better place by complaining at me? spoiler: you're not. unless you're looking to scream at an internet stranger for a few comments before getting bored, i don't know what's motivated you to say anything in this thread at all

now if you'll excuse me i'm going to go tell people with foot fetishes that they're worse then hitler, as is clearly my only hobby!

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Leytala-Velnial In reply to Wreckham [2019-08-13 18:14:15 +0000 UTC]

Personally I like vore but not as a fetish...it is more of a liking of of the concept.



And since when are fetish fans PERVERTS? If you actually get to KNOW some of these people, most fetish fans fans are actually decent people and aren't 'icky' at all. And hey, if stuff like vore and inflation can get into shows like Tom and Jeryy and Spongebob...why can't it be on here? This site is for ages 13 and up AND Has a mature content filter for 'sexual themes' not to mention again there is NOTHING in the rules tha tsays yo ucan't post fetish art here


And I'm talking about people posting comments like "OMG U LIEK X FETISH GO KEEL URSELVE!" or "THIS IS CANCER!" or "(insert 8 million it's time to stop emojis here)" on fetish art. That kinda shit is NOT okay.


I REALLY hate the diaper fetish the Stuffing fetish and the blueberry fetish but instead of going to random images of those fetish is telling the artists that they're drawings are cancer or that they should kill themselves...I make anti stamps (on my stamp account)


Oh trust me...DA cares about drama...I got this guy suspended after he made a NSFW edit of one of my character's refs and the reason he did this? I called him out on his rabid vore hating bullshit...so... (and the image in question was taken down)


And there's a HUGE difference between talking to your FRIENDS about fanfiction that makes you want to tear your eyes out and spewing hate comments on the ACTUAL ART/STORY

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Wreckham In reply to Leytala-Velnial [2019-08-13 21:36:46 +0000 UTC]

lol ur so tilted

Imma be real with you chief. I don't actually care that hard about fetishes or the people who have them outside of the inherently harmful shit, and I don't really even go out of my way to insult anyone on most days. This whole fuss started with me pointing out OP's hypocrisy and unwillingness to accept that free speech means people can say whatever they want about his art, and I just threw in some assholery to spice it up. I'm no longer interested in whinging about fetishes being weird or gross because that was never the actual point in the first place, and lbr: you're not gonna change my mind anytime soon, so why put in the effort?

Btw, the dude you "got suspended" edited art that wasn't his and posted NSFW, all for the sake of harassing another user. That breaks actual rules on dA, while saying "ew gross" on something doesn't.

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GoyangiStudios32 In reply to Wreckham [2022-12-31 07:37:51 +0000 UTC]

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Leytala-Velnial In reply to Wreckham [2019-08-13 22:35:03 +0000 UTC]

hmmm very well...just be aware that saying stuff like that on people's art is likely to get you blocked on here.

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remttid In reply to Wreckham [2019-05-19 01:30:48 +0000 UTC]

exactly thank you

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CagedTanbirdSings [2017-05-26 01:01:10 +0000 UTC]

Kink-shaming is a stupid act, it is the same as bitching and complaining when your best friend likes chocolate cake and you don't. It is okay to dislike a fetish, but it is NEVER okay to bash or be rude to someone for it.

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tultsi93 [2016-12-07 16:52:59 +0000 UTC]

Freedom of Speech belongs to everyone, when ever you like it or not.

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Ryuuseinow [2016-09-15 22:39:05 +0000 UTC]

I don't think it should be illegal, but out shouldn't be encouraged either.

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SinisterSlashes [2016-09-06 20:30:15 +0000 UTC]

Making it illegal is a bit much, and it would be based on a he said/she said case. And really just grow a thicker skin, people have opinions and their gonna voice them.

Also there's many fucked up fetishes out there too like pedophilia.

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